Apologies for the just completely gratuitously gay second QOTD (the last one at least had literary merit), but I’ve been YouTube-ing Rachel Maddow because… well… because I was, and she has a great aphorism in an appearance on Conan O’Brien last year. She’s talking about how she sometimes receives hate mail saying “you’re gay”:
That is the single best thing about coming out of the closet, that no one can insult you by telling you what you’ve just told them.
Come out come out wherever you are! Rachel Maddow said so!